Chalet Shenanigans - Chapter 27

So I have this Aunt

. . . who is coming to visit and whom I love dearly and who reads this blog religiously and who is hysterical enough to merit her own blog post.

If you are an ex-pat long enough, you will see your fair share of visitors who come in all possible combinations of age, sex, health and family configurations.  In order to be a good host, you, dear ex-pat, should keep a ready list of things to do and see that account for every type of houseguest.

I have my list of things for twentysomethings which includes skiing, giving directions to the Flon which is the club spot in Lausanne and a plan for spending  a night in a yurt.  I have my list of things for couples our age which includes skiing, hiking from Wengen to Klein Scheidegg and walking to Lutry on Sunday morning for brunch.

We haven’t had any visitors yet with small children, but when we do, I have a list ready for them as well which includes skiing, getting lost in the Labyrinth Park near Monthey and eating our way through the  chocolate factory tour in Broc.

I also have a very short list for sixtysomethings from two years ago when my dad and his wife came to visit and I am going to steal liberally from this agenda when my aunt comes in May.  Unfortunately, my dad was only here with me in Switzerland for three days so the list only includes Gruyere and a boat trip to Evian and Yvoire.

My aunt, bless her heart, is in her seventies but she acts like she is in her forties so I am cautiously optimistic about the success of this extended visit.  The best part about Auntie is that she comes as a matching set with Uncle Wade*, (*names have been changed to protect the innocent, although Uncle “Wade” is far from innocent, so I don’t really know why I have bothered to change his name.)   Uncle Wade is, quite possibly, the funniest person on this planet or any other.  His sense of humor is so dry he makes James Bond’s martini envious.  (I hope he steals that line and has it engraved on his headstone.)

I am sure when Uncle Wade was courting Auntie he saw a cute, petite, vivacious and funny little thing that he thought would make the latter half of his life fun, lively and adventurous.  Yeah, he got all that.  And a cup of coffee.  Auntie is like Tinkerbell, wrapped inside a Brillo pad, tucked inside Napoleon’s vest.  Imagine if General Patton and Hello Kitty had a baby.  That’s Auntie.  And, honey, if Auntie were running the world, well, the world would run.  Period.

Unfortunately, Uncle Wade is not coming to Europe.  Not now, not ever.  Which is a shame because he and I have shared many a bonding moment complete with eyerolls when we looked across the room at all of our relatives and sent a mental message to each other that said “We are the only two sane people in the joint.  Let’s just sit back and enjoy the show, shall we?” 

Ain’t no way Uncle Wade was gonna go traipsin’ off to a furrin’ country and hang out with no namby pamby poncey Eurotrash and possibly miss the salmon run in Alaska.  No way in hell, missy.  Jus’ send me a postcard and let’s call it a day.

So, I’m a little nervous.  Auntie is a Planner.  I am not a Planner.  I am a fly-by-the-seat-of-my-pants kind of person.  Here’s a little hint of why I am nervous:


Fairly Close Reconstruction of our conversation in November, 2012:

Auntie:  I want to come see you.  I’ve never been to Europe and it is a lifelong dream.

Me:  Great!  Is Uncle Wade coming with you?

Auntie:  Oh, for Heaven’s sake, no, of course not.  Have you lost your mind?  He might miss moose season or the premier of Duck Dynasty or something.

Me:  Okay.  When are you thinking of coming?

Auntie:  That’s a good question.  When is the next time you are coming to America?  Because, you see, the thing is, I am, actually, uh, a bit nervous to fly all that way by myself.

Me:  Um, okay.  Well, we are coming to America in December, February and then, I think, May of 2013.

Auntie:  Isn’t it cold there in December and February?

Me (laughing):  Yes, you could say that!  So, you want to fly with us in May when we come back to Switzerland from South Carolina?

Auntie:  Yes!  When do you think you will know the flight number?

Me:  The flight number of what?

Auntie:  The flight number of the plane we will be taking, silly!

Wowza, lady, I don’t even know what continent I’m going to be living on next May and you want to book a flight?  Of course, I didn’t say that because she is my elder, plus I didn’t want her to think that I was a flibberty-gibbet which is a word that I imagine people of her generation call people like me.  Plus I didn’t want to get smacked upside the head with a small handbag.

I held her off until February and then she started to go into Planner Panic.  Planner Panic occurs when a person who is, by nature, a Planner, encounters people like me who are utter bohemians and they start having anxiety attacks.  Three months ahead of time.  Here are the differences in the thought processes:

Bohemian:  Chill, mama.  You will be on a plane.  You will fly to Europe.  I will be with you the entire time.  Well, except for the time when you are in coach and I am in business.  During that time, I will come back and visit you and laugh at your food.  JUST KIDDING, AUNTIE!!!  LOVE YOU!!!  Where was I?  Okay, we will hang out in Switzerland, France and Italy.  It will be awesome and we will drink a lot of wine.  I will send you home, by yourself, and you will have many good memories and many Facebook-worthy pictures of us eating and meandering our way through Europe.

Planner:  I will leave the house at 9:34 Pacific Standard Time.   Uncle Wade will drive me to Sea-Tac and put me on the 12:45 plane to Columbia, South Carolina via Atlanta.  I will choose the pasta option in the air.  Upon landing, I will be met by Trailing Spouse and Mr. Big and we will proceed to their home where we will spend approximately 56 hours.  We will leave for the Charlotte airport at . . .

Well, you get the picture.  It’s not like I don’t have vast experience dealing with a Planner.  I am married to one.  However, over the decades, I have trained his inner Planner self to just go into hiding and go with the flow and it has always come out splendidly.  Well, almost always.  Auntie, on the other hand, is not used to my Bohemian ways and I fear that I will spoil her one and only trip to Europe in her entire life.  This terrifies me.  Too much pressure.  Gah!

In order to circumvent future May pitfalls, I sent Auntie a questionnaire.  Really.  Ask her.  I did.  It was a legit questionnaire with queries like “how many miles can you walk on uneven cobblestones?” and “approximately how many churches/cathedrals would you like to see in a 2 week period?  Ten?  Twenty?  Or some embarrassing number like fifty?” and “if we have to share a hotel room, do you prefer the right or left side?” and “what temperature in said hotel room would you say is ideal?  Warm?  Hot?  Or so hot we could steam dim sum on the radiator?”  Hey, you never know, right?  I was just trying to cover all my bases.

She was a really good sport and she answered my questions truthfully so I now have a much better grasp of what she wants to see and do.  Here is an example of her Definite Must Sees and her Possibly, If There Is Time Can We Please Sees:  (keep in mind she will be here for fourteen days):

Rome, Venice, Barcelona, Paris, Every City in Switzerland, St. Petersburg, Prague, Copenhagen, Tuscany, Provence, both the Italian and French Rivieras and every small, charming village in Europe while not ruling out a side trip to the UK.  And Ireland.

Auntie has the same problem many, many Americans have when coming to Europe.  They look at a world map and they compare the size of Europe to the size of America and they think, “jeez, that whole continent fits inside Ohio.  We can see the whole thing in like, a week.  Maybe even 5 days if we drive fast enough and don’t dawdle.”  What they don’t understand is that there is a little thing called the Alps that runs smack dab through the middle of the continent which inhibits travel.  A voyager must take into account all of the VERTICAL miles as well as horizontal miles.  That’s why it takes 5 hours to drive to Milan and Milan is only like twelve miles away.

Americans also don’t understand the difficulties of a highway system where the biggest road in an entire country has only two or three lanes going in each direction.  Usually only two.  Lastly, Auntie, I am sure, does not have a good grip on the limitations of my vehicle.

I have a Land Rover Defender which I use strictly to get around in the snow.  It’s not really a highway vehicle.  It’s certainly not a city vehicle.  It doesn’t go very fast and it is neither pretty nor comfortable but it will plow through two feet of snow like nobody’s business.  It is sort of like a Sherman tank but without as many cupholders.  Therefore, Auntie and I will probably be training to the majority of the spots on her Wish List and then taking various metro systems and bus routes.  I am nervous about this because I am trying to picture my aunt, the Planner, in the bowels of the Paris metro system where the only thing one can plan on is mayhem.

I am seriously thinking of getting her one of those harness/leash things so I don’t lose her.  I’m pretty sure Uncle Wade would never forgive me if I lost his wife.

Me:  Uncle Wade, I lost your wife.  One minute we were boarding the water taxi in Venice and when I turned around, she’d gone missing.

Wade:  Does she have her Venice guide book with her?

Me:  I’m quite certain that she has 7 or 8 guide books on her person as we speak.  She left a few in the hotel room that I told her she wouldn’t need today, like the Istanbul one, for example.

Wade:  Go online and see what the Venice guide book says about “What to do if you get lost or if you lose another person” and then just do whatever the book says because you can be durned sure that that is what she is going to do.

Me:  So you think she will just be hanging out at the American Consulate then, huh?

Wade:  Bet on it, missy.  She’s probably reorganized their filing system by now and made them all place Mary Kay cosmetic orders.  There’s potential here for an international incident so you best hurry.

Me:  I’m on it.

Well, I was going to continue this blog post because there’s much more to cover but I’ve just received an email from Auntie telling me that she hopes that all of the seats that I booked for her on her various flights are aisle seats.  Apparently, this is a crucial question that I left off of my informal questionnaire and I had Mr. Big book all window seats.  DON’T TELL HER!!  I will have this little issue fixed before she ever even knows about it!  Gah!  Gotta go!

Chalet Shenanigans - Chapter 26

First World Problems, a.k.a White Whine

I really should be doing my French homework and/or sewing the curtains for the bathroom, but Mr. Big is away in London, probably hanging out with Gordon Ramsay or Jamie Oliver, so, I am playing hookie and writing in my blog.

Which brings me to the topic for this post:  i.e. First World Problems.  Let’s see.  Hmmmm.  My husband is in London eating at some famous chef’s restaurant while I try to decide, while sitting in my chalet in the French Alps, what would be the most fulfilling use of my time.  Hmm.  Dilemma, dilemma.  See?  First World Problem.

This blog post is probably going to receive hate mail, but I don’t care.  Over here in Europe, we are not as politically correct as they are in America.  And, as far as First World Problems go, Switzerland takes the cake, hands down.  This country, I’m sure, logs the most First World Problems of any other, bar none.  The 99% can bitch and moan all they want, but, in Switzerland, no one cares.  They have real problems, here, by God, and these problems need to be taken seriously.

Truthfully, I would never write a whole article about this, but really, it is just too funny and I cannot help myself.  BECAUSE IT HAPPENS EVERY SINGLE DAY.  Usually, I chuckle and say, (under my breath), eh, First World Problem.  But, sometimes, it’s MY problem and then I’m not chuckling so much.  Fair warning, most of these problems are going to involve picture taking, skiing and sight-seeing.  YOU SEE?  Even our First World Problems involve First World Problems!

Take today, for example.  My homework (that I’m not doing but that I’m supposed to be doing) involves writing an essay on my opinion on The Minder Proposition.  The Minder Proposition is a bill that’s up for vote here next month which limits executive pay, because these bastards just make way too friggin’ much money, i.e. FWP.

Ergo, if you make so much money that your entire country thinks you need a pay cut AND FEELS THE NECESSITY TO BRING IT TO A VOTE, you have a First World Problem.

Some more examples:

You join Twitter because you think you are achingly funny but then you realize that you don’t really understand how to do it.  This embarrasses you and you tell no one that you are just not hip.

If, during a raging thunderstorm LOCATED IN SOUTH  CAROLINA, your  SWISS television skips a beat and you lose about 20 seconds of the show you are watching, this is a FWP.  This is what you say, “stupid Slingbox.  Who invented this thing?  Is it back on yet?  Jeez, I missed it.  Rewind!  Rewind!”

If, while trying to take an artistic photo of the Matterhorn, some other person walks in front of you, you say, “Dude, you are blocking my mountain. “  Then you have to wait, like, 5 seconds for them to move.  Some people are just rude.

Yes, First World Problems.  Otherwise known as White Whines.  No one takes them seriously.  No one cares.  No one is dying, right?  No one is starving.  First World Problems are the hangnails on the cuticles of life.

But, I must confess, I have them, and, yes they are funny, but they are real.  Here are some more:

In the Nespresso store, “I need 45 boxes of Ristretto”.  The lady behind the counter clarifies, “45, really?”  Yes, lady, I have Nespresso machines in three countries.  Just give me my 45 boxes.  Please.  I don’t need your raised eyebrows.  It’s 15 per country, which is not outrageous.  Spare me the eyebrow lift.  Please.

There’s a beautiful, raging blizzard going on outside, but you are all tucked up cozy inside your chalet with your fire going, sipping one of the aforementioned Nespressos, aaaand the internet goes out.  You check the computer, you check the tv, you check the iPhone.  No internet.  Waaaah!  How will I watch The Bachelor?  How will I download a new book onto my Kindle?  Wah, wah, wah.  There’s only one solution.  You get in your car and drive TO YOUR OTHER HOUSE where the internet is surely working.  (I think this one, so far, has been my ultimate First World Problem.  I’m almost embarrassed to talk about it.  Almost.)

You find yourself calculating exactly how far is too far for a 6-month old baby to fly comfortably, because you are trying to plan next summer’s family vacation.  You really want to do the South African safari thing, but that may be pushing it.  You may have to “settle” for Ibiza, or, God forbid, go slumming  in the Caribbean.

Here’s a whole subset of skiing problems.  By definition, ANY problem while skiing is a First World Problem, right?  They just don’t have these issues in Zimbabwe.

If, while sitting on a deck at a mountain restaurant, after having stopped for lunch during your day of skiing, the sun goes behind a cloud, you say, “OMG, where’s the sun?  I only like to ski in full sun or I will get chilly”.

You decide that you need a new ski jacket because your current, (although perfectly good), model does not have a dedicated pocket for your sun glasses.  It really bothers you that, on sunny days, (which are the only days that you ski, remember), when you stop to have lunch on the slopes, you do not have your sun glasses handy when you take off your helmet and goggles.  You always have to ask your husband for your glasses because his ski jacket has multiple pockets.  What a pain.

Sometimes, if you don’t time it just right, you have to wait the whole 17 minutes for the ski bus to make its’ loop.  So annoying.  You could, of course, walk to the ski lift in that time, but who does that?

You tend to avoid the slopes that have button lifts because you have white ski pants and they make your crotch look SO GRUNGY by the end of the day.  I mean, really.  Couldn’t they CLEAN those things occasionally?

And what about those restaurants that don’t give you a saucer or at least a napkin under your vin chaud?  Don’t they know how difficult it is to walk from the bar to your lounge chair in ski boots without sloshing a little?  C’mon, I’ve got white pants on here!  So thoughtless.

And for those of you out there who are thinking, “wow, I really can’t relate.  That Trailing Spouse is a horrible person, etc.”, well, if you are one of those who cleans your house BEFORE your cleaning lady gets there, you, my dear, have a First World Problem.

You get the picture.  Next time you find yourself complaining about something that 8 billion other people WISH they could complain about, just stop.  Take a deep breath and say, OK, that’s a First World Problem.

Then submit it to White Whines so all of the rest of us can enjoy it.

Chalet Shenanigans - Chapter 25

 Two New Babies:  One Real Kind and One Master Bath

Grand Three made her arrival in December and we attended the joyous occasion in Atlanta.  You will recall that Grands One and Two came as a package deal with Mrs. Domestic Son at the ripe old ages of 9 and 4 so we missed out on their babyhoods.   Mr. Big and I haven’t been around a newborn in over 20 years and Mr. Big has never been exposed to a lactating mother.

Well, Mr. Big was just hilarious as he always is when placed outside his comfort zone.  Nowadays, the whole family is invited into the Labor Room to hang out with the expectant parents while the mom-to-be, well, labors.  Needless to say, Mr. Big feels that he is quite well-acquainted with his daughter-in-law now.  The poor man just didn’t know where to look.  He finally settled on an imaginary point in space located somewhere in the vicinity of the doorway from which he did not move his gaze for about six hours.  You have never seen a man so relieved as he was when he found out that , when things really started getting serious, he was expected to leave.

Mr. Big:  Is it time to go?  I think it’s time to go, don’t you?  She looks like she’s ready.

Me, studying Mrs. Domestic Son:  No.  She’s not even in pain, yet.  She’s got hours left.

Mr. Big:  Perhaps, but look at MY face.  Have I reached a sufficient level of discomfort?

Bless his heart.  Little did he know, his troubles were just beginning.  I forgot that Mr. Big’s only experience with babies and childbirth is what he personally experienced with our own children.  Me, on the other hand, I worked for seven years as an administrator on a High Risk Pregnancy floor in a huge teaching hospital and I have seen everything you can imagine.




I have seen a baby born in a toilet to a mother who thought she had eaten a bad enchilada.  I have seen a 44 year old first time hippy-dippy mother who brought her baby back to our office a month after his birth complaining that he wasn’t growing.  WELL, MAYBE BECAUSE, TWIGGY, YOU ARE FEEDING HIM A MACROBIOTIC DIET OF VINEGAR, WILD RICE AND NON-PASTEURIZED COW’S MILK.  (Here’s a hint, new moms, if it is curdled in the bottle, it might not be the ideal nourishment for junior).  I have seen moms with cancer, moms with kidney disease, crack head moms and moms with a history of consanguineous twins all give birth.  I have seen a mom give birth, successfully, to a baby who was growing OUTSIDE of her uterus which she had previously injured in a car crash.  There ain’t nothin’ I ain’t seen when it comes to birthin’ no babies.

Which brings me to the period immediately after the birth of our own precious Grand Three.    Breast fed babies eat constantly.  Ergo, there will be an exposed breast somewhere around at all times.  It’s pretty much a given.  After the third time that Mr. Big waltzed in the room only to confront a breast that did not belong to his wife, he learned to knock.  Helllooooow!  I’m coming in!  A man who should not be seeing a boob is coming in!  Fair warning!  I’m counting to three!

Awkward.  Just awkward.  At this point, we decided that we would just kidnap the other two Grands and become their caretakers for the next two days.  We would  pop in OCCASIONALLY to the hospital to check in on things.  Meanwhile, we were enjoying the fact that Grands One and Two were old enough to just tell us what they wanted and we could revert to what grandparents are really supposed to do, i.e. spoil the grandkids.

For example, do you remember when you were hanging out with your grandparents and your parents were not there and your grandparents would INDULGE YOUR EVERY WHIM?  Yeah, good times, huh?  Grand Two is 6 and he wanted to go for Mexican.  (For all of you Europeans, when Americans say that they want to go for Mexican, they are not saying that they want to go to Cancun.  They are saying that they want to go EAT some Mexican food).  So, while noshing on some scrumptious chimichangas, Grand Two asks, slyly, if I have a quarter.

GRAND TWO:  GoGo, do you have a quarter?

ME:  An American quarter?  No, son, I don’t think I do, sorry.  I have other kinds of money, though.

GRAND TWO:  Do you have ANY American money? (thinking to himself, I’m sure, you worthless grandma, you).

ME:  Yes, I have a five dollar bill.

GRAND TWO:  Is there any way to make that into a quarter?

ME (still completely in the dark about his ulterior motive):  Yes, but you have to ask that girl up there at the cash register for change.

GRAND TWO:  OK!  See ya!  (as he snatches my five dollar bill out of my hand).

In the blink of an eye, Grand Two is at the counter conversing  with the cashier.  Meanwhile, I ask Grand One, my wise little spy, what her brother is up to.  “Oh, GoGo”, she says.  “He is getting candy out of the machine up there at the front of the restaurant”.

Twelve minutes later Grand Two comes back to the table with his hands in his little Wrangler jeans pockets.  He proceeds to pull out pounds and pounds and pounds of Skittles out of every compartment and orifice on his body.  Wow, Grand Two!  That is quite a haul!  Where is my change?

Change?  What change?  You should have seen, GoGo, how many quarters I got for your money!  It was amazing!  What did you think was taking me so long?  It took foooreeeeever to spend all of those quarters!  You rock, GoGo.

Yes, Little Man, I know.  But, let’s not tell your Mom or Dad about this, shall we?  This is just a Grand Two and GoGo secret, right?  That you consumed 5 dollars worth of stale candy?  Our little secret, dude.

Well, enough about the grandkids, because I could just go on and on all day.  I will leave you there in Atlanta with this:  Domestic Son, bless his heart, is really, really trying, but this is his first rodeo, you know?  So, I asked him the other day for an update.

ME:  Well, how is she?  Is she everything you thought she would be and more?  Is she growing?  Is she sleeping?  Is she doing any tricks that I need to know about?

Domestic Son:  I think she’s growing.  She looks bigger.  Actually, I can tell you this.  She hasn’t grown out of her newborn-sized diapers which say on the package “7-14 lbs.”  So, she is somewhere between 7 and 14 pounds.  Does that help?

This is the difference between being the parent of the father and the parent of the mother.  #SheIsSomewhereBetween7and14pounds.  Perfect.

We arrived back home and immediately began working on our other “baby”, the master bath at the chalet, our latest project.  I’m including this topic in the blog because everybody needs to see how the sinks from Marrakesh came out.  I’ll also post a picture of the tassels that I bought in Morocco that I twined around the guest towels in the powder room so y’all can copy.  Plus, my girlfriends here want to see how the chandelier came out that I bought while I was with them.

I bought a semi-disgusting chandelier at an auction here in Lausanne for very little money.  And rightly so, because it was, frankly, pretty ugly.  But, it had potential, you know?  After my friends saw me raise my hand and buy this thing, they were all like “oh!  It’s so pretty!  What are you going to do with it?”  But, I know they were really thinking, “oh!  That’s revolting!  What the hell is she going to do with that eyesore?”

After cleaning it and applying a coat of spray paint, I restrung the crystals in a different configuration and added some black crystals that I bought on the internet.  Voila!  Designer chandelier!

I designed the pattern of the subway tiles to mimic the shape of the alpine peaks, which Mr. Big executed beautifully.  I drew the pattern that I wanted, then, I laid the tiles out on the floor in the middle of the dining room.  He then took a picture of the tiles and referred to the picture while he was laying the tiles in the bathroom.  This is how we roll.

The vanity is actually two matching dining room sideboard pieces that Mr. Big screwed together and then screwed to the wall.  (I left the cutlery trays in them just because I think it is hilarious that we can now store silverware in the bathroom.)  We still have to order a shower door and I need to sew a curtain for the window so that no hikers inadvertently see me naked and scar themselves for life, but, other than that, the master bath is fini.

Onto the second floor!  Small Son, your bedroom is about to get a little bigger.  Once again, we have that weird configuration up there of a single toilet in a skinny little room all by itself, completely separate from the shower/sink/bidet room.  So weird and so unsanitary.  Every time I see these toilets all by themselves, all I think about is somebody peeing AND THEN NOT BEING ABLE TO WASH THEIR HANDS, touching the doorknob to get out of the toilet room, touching the doorknob on the OTHER bathroom that has the sink in it and, basically, contaminating everything with their pee germs within a 5 meter radius.  It just grosses me out.

To rectify this, we are doing away with the separate toilet room altogether.  The bidet in the other room will magically turn into a toilet.  The skinny toilet room, once Mr. Big gets out his chain saw, will be incorporated into Small Son’s bedroom and create like a groovy little niche-slash-headboard type of housing for the bed.  It will all work out, you’ll see.  I’ll post pictures.

I’m going to try to get this post up and running and maybe one other before we are scheduled to go back for a quick trip to America to check on Grand Three.  Just wait until all y’all are grandparents.  They tug at your heartstrings in a completely different way than your own children did.  I think it has something to do with the fact that you are not personally losing any sleep.  They represent 100% joy and 0% angst.  The first thing I am going to do is weigh her.  I’m just not comfortable with this whole “diaper package” system.

Chalet Shenanigans - Chapter 24

 Sinks, Penises and Chickens

I last left you hanging in the main plaza in Marrakesh, Morocco where the scary guy had just removed the snake from around Mr. Big’s neck.  After that traumatic ordeal, Mr. Big needed a drink.  Getting a beer in a Muslim country is an adventure in and of itself.  You just don’t saunter up to a restaurant and order a wine.

For all of you who are saying that it surely cannot be that difficult, let me just say that, yes, it is.  You’ve got 3 choices.  You either:

a)      are savvy enough to know that you should have cleaned out the Duty Free shop in the airport when you landed,
b)      are staying in a hotel/riad that is not owned by a Muslim and therefore will find you some alcohol if you DIDN’T stock up at the duty free

or,

c)        understand the secret code.  The secret code is Bar versus Restaurant.  If you are out and about and you are seeing signs for restaurants/cafes/bistros, etc., keep in mind that none, I repeat, none of these establishments will serve alcohol.  You must search high and low for a sign that specifically says “bar”.  If you are in Saudi Arabia, Syria, Libya, Iran, Yemen and many others, you will have to keep searching for that bar sign until you cross a border into a more civilized country.  Get it?

Marrakesh has a fabulous bar, called the Kosybar, and, please note, that I said “a” bar.  It was the only place in the city that I saw in 3 days that served alcohol, but who really needs more than one bar when the one ticks all the boxes, hmm?  Even if you don’t drink, you should really visit just because it is an oasis of calm after a day of chaos in the medina.  That, plus, it is filled with Westerners who all looked shell-shocked, (just like you will), after haggling in the souks and having random reptiles slung around their necks.

The Kosybar sits on the second floor above a wonderful plaza filled with ironmongers.  The middle of the plaza is filled with ladies in burkas selling everything from jewelry to hot cross buns.  Fascinating.  Plus, it is directly adjacent to one of the king’s many, many palaces.  Along his palace walls perch the royal storks inside their royal stork nests which are the size of an 18-wheeler’s tires.  Major picture opportunities.

The first day, we needed this respite after the snake incident.  The second day, we sought out this homing beacon of normality because we had had all we could take of “otherness”.  We spent all day in the souks with a guide, (yes, we resorted to a guide because Mr. Big swore he was not riding on any more scooters with any more Berbers), and we were tired of being bombarded with the sight of animal penises.

I just don’t know what the story is, but the Moroccans leave extraneous parts dangling from their offerings in the butcher shops.  Everything, including fowl, still has its’ genitalia intact.  Or its’ spine.  Or its’ brain.  Say you wanted two turkey legs to cook for dinner.  You go to your local butcher in Marrakech and, voila, there’s your dinner hanging from a hook.  There will be a long, skinny spinal column with no meat attached because Mrs. Achmed from down the street beat you to the breasts.  At the end of the spine are the turkey legs, the turkey butt and the turkey penis.  Yum, I say.  Nothin’ says down-home cookin’ like turkey penis.

While you are in Morocco, you will be constantly bombarded by the fact that you are, indeed, in Africa.  Despite their efforts at westernizing, despite their efforts at cleaning up for the tourists, the locals still have not got the memo.  For example, the movie theater, (the ONE movie theater), will send your westernized brain awhirl.  While I was taking a picture of the crazy juxtaposition of modern movie posters plastered on the side of what can only be called an outbuilding, along comes an older guy into my view finder just a-swingin’ two live chickens upside-down in his skinny fist.  I’m like, dude, really, did you plan this?  Did the Ministry of Tourism send you into my photo frame?  Because this is just too good to be true.

Day Number Three, we visited the Kosybar just because we were having dinner three doors down at  Le Tanjia.  This restaurant is delicious and I highly recommend.  (It’s a very touristy kind of place with belly dancers so Mr. Big was, of course, delighted).  

We ordered the salad for two as an appetizer.  They proceeded to bring out 83 bowls of delectable salads and cold veggies and piles of homemade nan bread.  I was full before the entrée arrived.  (Really, all of the food that we had in Morocco was outstanding.  In Switzerland, the veggies are very limited, so I was in heaven in a country that can actually grow fresh veg.)



We had some time to kill before North Africa Guy came to pick us to take us to the airport on Day Four.  The only thing I had left on my must-see list was a Moroccan Co-op type of store that I had heard about.  Apparently, they carried everything one find in the souks BUT there is no haggling.  Everything, supposedly, had price tags on them.  Well, you can imagine that by Day Four I was looking forward to a little stress-free shopping, so off we went.

You know what’s coming, don’t you?  This place was more than a shop.  It was a charming outdoor mall.  The prices were about half, yes, half, of what I had managed to barter down to out in the wild.  Did I let that depress me and hamper my shopping experience?  Don’t be ridiculous.  I mean, really, when you already have five rugs crammed in your luggage, what is one or two more in the grand scheme of things?  The best thing I found was a silk-weaver who was making these fabulous tassels.  I really had no place to put any tassels, (hey, hey now, get your mind out of the gutter), but I knew I would think of something.  Give me four, please.  (I eventually used them to tie up the towels in the guest bathroom at the chalet).

Just as we were leaving the co-op, I spied a tiny little shop at the very end.  It was a stone mason’s studio.  This little old Morrocan guy got his stone out of the Atlas mountains and he carved it into any number of things, but his specialty was vessel sinks.  The kind of sinks that sit up on top of a vanity in the bathroom.  You know the kind that I mean.  Coincidentally, Mr. Big and I were in the market for two vessel sinks but we had been shopping for them in Switzerland where they cost as much as a Smart car.  A new Smart car, not a used one.


Now, Old Mr. Mason did not speak a lick of either French or English—he was old school Arabic.  Luckily, Mr. Mason had a son whom he summoned after much pointing at sinks and general mayhem that always ensues with these language difficulties.  The son spoke some God-forsaken amalgamation of French and Arabic, but I was finally able to glean the fact that the sinks cost around the equivalent of 125 USD.  Literally, I made him repeat it 20 times because I could not believe that these beautiful sinks cost what I routinely pay for a pork tenderloin.    But now the fun begins, right?  Because these sinks are located on another continent in a third world country and I live one sea and three countries away from these sinks.  Does this stop me from buying these sinks?  Of course not.  I have bought crazier things than these sinks, let me assure you.

In some madman’s version of French-Arabic, the son and I arrange to have my sinks driven by A Guy in A Truck on a ferry across the Mediterranean to Spain.  He will then drive to Lyon, France where he will stop because he is scared to come to Switzerland.  France, yes.  Switzerland, no.  To this day I still do not know the reason, but, whatever.  Lyon, France it is.  At some point in the future, on some given day, some Guy in A Truck is going to call me on my cell phone and tell me when and where to meet him in Lyon for the Great Sink Hand-Off.  We pay Mr. Mason and his son 200 euros  for our two sinks.  The shipping cost of 100 euros will be paid directly to The Guy in The Truck at the time of the Hand-Off.

Do Mr. Big and I think that we will ever see these sinks?  We think our odds are approximately 3 out of 10 AGAINST, but we figure, hey, nothing ventured, nothing gained.  Fast forward two months.  Mr. Big and I are in Atlanta, Georgia, USA, attending the birth of a new granddaughter, when my cell phone rings and it is, of course, The Guy in The Truck.  He would like to meet me on the freeway in Lyon IN ONE HOUR.  Yes.  One hour.  And did I mention that The Stupid Guy in The Stupid Truck with my Stupid Sinks speaks very, very, very little French.  It’s not looking good for my sinks, is it?

This is when Mr. Big starts calling in favors all over Europe to procure these two sinks.  To make a long story short, it involved 9 employees of The Company in four countries and two continents, multiple hand-offs, one house, one garage, multiple car trunks, and one HOTEL! before my sinks arrived in Lausanne.  It was a comedy of errors.  At one point, my sinks even went to Belgium.  They spent one weekend snowed in Alsace-Lorraine.  They drove down through Germany.  My sinks had it goin’ on.

To summarize, I would go back to Morocco again in a heartbeat.  This time I would not bring any white clothing, I would buy more wine at the Duty Free and I would definitely go to the Co-op first.  I would stay in a fancy hotel outside the Medina like everyone told us to do in the first place.  Oh, and I would think twice before buying any more bathroom fixtures.  And to the Company employee to whom I still owe 100 euros, thanks buddy, and I know I owe you some cash and I’m sorry that the packaging smelled like rotten spices and made your whole garage stink like Marrakesh.  My bad.

Special Edition

                                     Wherein I Come To You Hat in Hand, Literally

Christmas is a good time for reflecting on the blessings you have received in your life and to look for ways to share those blessings with people who may not be so fortunate.  I know we all have our favorite churches and charities and annual 5 kilometer races that we give to every year.  But this year, if you could see your way clear, would you consider supporting a lovely, wee girl?

Let me explain.  Last month, my family received a bit of devastating news.  My little cousin, Sydney, is 11.  She lives in Utah.  She was just diagnosed with Non-Hodgkin’s Lymphoma and has started her 50-week course of chemo at Primary Children’s Medical Center in Salt Lake City, Utah, USA.

She’s a little trooper and her web pages are here, Team Sydney  and here,  Sydney's Blog and here, Facebook .

So, I asked her if she wanted me to send her a fetching, little French beret to add a bit of penache to her newly bald dome and she said, “yes, please.  In teal, if possible.”  Her momma, my first cousin, told me that one of Sydney’s dreams is to someday travel to Paris, (a dream shared by many, Sydney!)

The family then informed me that they had set up a way to donate to Team Sydney.  Why, I asked, what’s the problem?   Is it the health insurance?  It turns out that their insurance is not going to cover about 50,000 USD of the medical bills in the next twelve months.  Travel, hotel, and babysitting expenses for the family will come to another 10,000 USD or so over the next year.  My cousin’s husband is a hard-working guy, but 60K is a lot of money.

On the bright side, her prognosis is excellent and her spirit is as bubbly as usual.  So, if you are looking for a way to give thanks this year for your own good fortune, consider sending a cool hat (teal) and/or a fat check to:

Team Sydney

P.O. Box 352

Grace, Idaho  93241

USA

Or, you can pay with Pay Pal here, Sydney's Blog .   Just click on “Donate” and it will tell you how to proceed with your credit card.

From the bottom of my heart, I thank you and wish you the happiest of holidays.
Xoxo,  Trailing Spouse

Chalet Shenanigans - Chapter 23

 Wherein We Get Swindled by a Berber

O, Glory Day, I have a whole afternoon, evening and following morning with nothing on my To Do list except write in my blog.  My Christmas shopping for the relatives in the US is done, (thank you Dubai mall), the packages have been mailed, the second mortgage has been taken out to pay for the shipping charges, my French homework is caught up and my hair has been dyed.  I even clipped my toenails, but that is probably more information than you needed to know about my To Do list.

We left off as I was leaving for Morocco, which is a country in Africa, in which we visited two cities, Casablanca and Marrakesh and drove cross-country between the two cities.  If you are a pleasure traveler, (i.e. not on a business trip), do not waste your money on Casablanca.  It is a very large, modern city sans character and it is hard to tell that you are even on The Dark Continent.  I was picturing an exotic, romantic village selling Humphrey Bogart t-shirts, but I don’t think they have ever even heard of that movie.  Or, if they have, their marketing people just suck.  (Hey, all you recent marketing grads with no job prospects—there’s a huge opportunity just waiting to be cherry-picked in Casablanca).   If you are on a business trip, however, Casablanca is great.  It has a Starbucks and Wifi in the hotels, a lovely waterfront with good seafood restaurants and a ginormous mosque that you can stand in front of and get your picture taken in order to change your Facebook profile.  It still has a long way to go, mind you.  Casablanca’s no Paris, but it is comparable to say, Omaha.  For Africa, Omaha is pretty good.

The car ride from Casablanca to Marrakesh was really interesting.  Our chauffeur, who was Mr. Big’s No. 1 guy in North Africa and who baby-sat us the entire time we were in his country, (truthfully?  I think he got some memo from the home office that said “Mr. Big and Trailing Spouse are your problem for the next five days.  Do not let them out of your sight and do not let anything untoward befall them”), was APOLOGETIC as he was driving us across vast swaths of hard-core desert studded with the occasional mud-manufactured village.  Hey, North Africa Guy, stop apologizing.  This is awesome!  This is Africa!  Cue the camels!

North Africa Guy was shocked and dismayed that we were planning on staying for three days in the medina.  The medina is the ancient part of Marrakesh where all of the tourists go to haggle and barter and get their picture taken with camels, monkeys and cobras.  The medina is, literally, a zoo.  It is also dusty, dirty, hot, stinky and a haven for pickpockets, hence, the reason North Africa Guy was so hesitant to drop us off there for three days without his eagle eye upon us.

NAG:  Are you sure, Mr. Big, that you want to stay in the medina?  There are lovely hotels outside the walls in suburban Marrakesh where, I say in my most humble way, you might be more comfortable.  Where there might be, say, clean running water and non-ptomaine-inducing meals to be had.

BIG:  No, no, NAG, it’s quite alright.  My beloved bride wants to absorb the true African flavor.  That, and she wants to launch herself into the thick of things and out-haggle the locals over some rugs.  Thanks anyway, though.

NAG:  It’s your funeral.

At least that’s what I though he said, but he mumbled and I didn’t quite catch it.  Maybe he said “it’s your decision” but I don’t think so.

Okay, as much as I hate to admit it, NAG was right in a lot of ways.  The medina is absolutely filthy.  DO NOT wear open toed shoes or light-colored clothing unless you are Jack Reacher and you normally throw away your shit at the end of the day and buy new stuff the next.   The medina is VERY third world.  There are no cars allowed inside the rabbit-warren of streets except on two or three main roads.  At any given time, one might see a giant tour bus filled with gawkers, surrounded by a donkey cart overflowing with green grapes for sale, three large men in caftans riding one scooter with a sheet of drywall balanced on their heads and a random street urchin with a pet monkey begging for change.  Glorious.

The name for a hotel inside the medina is a “riad”.  This translates to “charming, boutique hotel owned by a non-Moroccan that serves alcohol and provides an oasis of peace and calm at the end of a day which was spent inside the nightmare known as the medina”.  Our riad was the El Mansour  and it was owned by a fabulously gay Brit with an eye for decorating.  Really, it was heaven. 

NAG dropped us off, hesitantly, at the edge of the medina with strict instructions of where we were to meet him for dinner, “right here.  I will meet you right here at 8 p.m.  Not one minute later.  Do you have my mobile number?”  Yes, NAG, you have given us your mobile number at least ten times.  You even wrote it on my hand.  I know he was thinking, please, please, dear Allah, let these people still be alive by this evening.  We were met at the edge of the medina by one of the riad employees and escorted, on foot, through a bunch of twists and turns, deeper and deeper into chaos.

Once inside the hotel, and after a welcoming pot of hot, mint tea which was oddly refreshing even though it was 90 degrees F outside, we were given “the lecture”.  This is where the hotel employee STRONGLY ADVISES you where to go, what to do, what NOT to do and, basically, how to remain intact with all of your belongings still attached to your person, while you are outside “in the wild”.  His recommendation?  Use a private guide/escort everywhere you go.

Did I listen to this man who has lived here all his life, probably since the time that he, himself, was an urchin-monkey-boy?   Of course not.  I am too stupid to do such a rational thing.  My reasoning was thus:  I am on a mission to buy a bunch of cool rugs for pennies on the dollar and a guide is not going steer me to the good places.  A guide is going to steer me toward his family and friends, ergo, not into bargain land.

C’mon, Mr. Big.  Put down that cup of tea and let’s get a move on.  Time’s a-wastin’.  Now, if there was ever a time in 26 years of marriage that Mr. Big shoulda put his damn foot down, now was the time.  But he missed that once-in-a-lifetime opportunity and off we went without a guide.  We had a map.  We had a few francs and a few euros.  We had a general idea of where we were headed.  And, after about 8 minutes and 400 meters, we had a new friend.

Ooooh, let me tell you.  This guy was good.  Really good.  We were walking down one of the main roads on the way to our first destination, the rug souk, (souk = market), when a semi-normal looking guy sidles up beside me and says “Monsieur and Madame, bonjour!  I’ve just finished my shift at the El Mansour and I saw you walking toward the market.  Do you know about the Berber market that is only held on Saturdays?  No?  Well, they have much better merchandise, especially rugs, than in the daily souk.  The Berber market is just here, to the left, would you like me to show you?”

Well, I didn’t just fall off the turnip truck, so I was a little skeptical.  This squirrely little guy did have three things going for him:

1.        He was speaking in French, so he knew we were Swiss.  (No.  They ALL speak French.)
2.        He did work at our hotel.  (No.  He was a street spy.)
3.        He dangled the carrot of some exotic market THAT NO ONE ELSE KNOWS ABOUT in front of me.  (Please.  I may want to revisit my comment about the turnip truck, because, apparently, I DID just fall off of it and it has left me in the dust.)

I offered some token resistance to the Squirrel to the tune of “no, but thank you anyway, and, before I totally blow you off, can you tell me a little bit more about this secret market?” kind of thing and, at that point, he knew he had a fish on the line.  What can I say?  I followed the Squirrel down a side street toward what I was sure was going to be some fabulous, hidden, Berber rug market.  I mean, it would be worth it to just meet a real Berber, right?

Okay, it was a rug shop.  But it was a three story rug shop being run by a 400 pound man of dubious Berber descent wearing white robes and a gold pointy hat and gold pointy slippers.  Y’all!  It was Ali Baba!  And the legends are true:  Ali Baba does have piles and piles and piles of beautiful carpets.  I was BEDAZZLED.  It was sick.  (At this point, it is important to remember that we still think our new “friend”, Squirrel, is legit and works at our hotel and that he is doing this out of the kindness of his heart.  This sentiment, however, was about to come to an abrupt end.)

I realize this story is going on too long, but I’m trying to set the stage, here.  So, we’ve got Ali Baba, the Big Kahuna, sitting on a bench with me with his hands resting on his giant belly and his pointy, gold feet peeking out from under his robe.  Squirrel has disappeared completely.  Instead, we have Ali Baba’s henchmen unfurling carpets out in front of me one after the other after the other and we have poor Mr. Big pacing around the edges of this brick and mud building praying that the Navy Seals are going to swoop in and save him.

The negotiations started getting down to brass tacks.  I was enamored with Ali’s carpets made out of goat skin.  I had never seen such a thing.  Ali even had one of his henchmen take out a Bic lighter and TRY TO LIGHT THE CARPET ON FIRE to show me how resilient his Berger goats were and, though my chalet might burn to the ground one day, my goat skin rug  would still be lying there, intact, on top of the ashes.   I was like, dude, I’ll take two.  What else you got?

And then.  And then.  It came time to pay for three rugs that I eventually decided upon at a price that I THOUGHT was awesome.  Granted, it wasn’t pennies on the dollar, but I was pretty proud of myself for haggling Ol’ Ali down by 80%.  Yes, pretty durned proud.  I pulled out my credit card.  (Hey, it’s a STORE, right?)

Ali Baba:  Madame, don’t you have cash?

Me:  Well, I have some cash, but not enough.  Don’t you take Visa?  It’s a Swiss Visa, after all.

Ali Baba:  How much cash do you have, exactly?

Me:  I have x amount of euros and x amount of Swiss francs.  (It wasn’t a lot, not nearly enough to cover the price of the rugs.)

Ali Baba (while trying to peer into my wallet, no lie):  I will take all your non-Moroccan cash and, perhaps, your husband could go to the bank machine and get the rest?

Me (starting to get a little bit uncomfortable):  No, I don’t think so.  I think I am done here.

Y’all.  The price of the rugs miraculously dropped by 50% in an instant and, in a peculiar juxtaposition, also fell my my blood pressure, common sense and any remaining futile resistance.  At that point, I looked at Mr. Big and said, “Honey, it is time for you to go to the ATM”, and lo and behold, Squirrel appeared in the doorway with, you guessed it, A SCOOTER, on which he was going to whisk Mr. Big away to take him to the ATM, which he did and we paid fully in cash and I got my rugs.

Okay, these people, these pseudo-Berbers, were not subtle.  As soon as Ali Baba had the cash in hand, he started doling out PORTIONS to all his henchmen and Squirrel, The Finder, right in front of us.  What a racket.  But, really, I didn’t care because I had my goat skin rugs and I was happy.  Mr. Big, whose eyes were rattling around in his skull over all these happenings that were astronomically outside his comfort zone, and who had still not recovered from his scooter ride where he spent the entire time trying not to come into physical contact with Squirrel’s back, grabbed my elbow and said, “we need to get the hell out of here before A) we die, or, B)you buy any more rugs of questionable skin content.”

Squirrel disappeared as soon as he had his commission in hand, never to be seen or heard from again, abandoning Mr. Big and I to find our own way through the lab rat maze out onto the main square where the hits just never stopped coming.  It’s a well-known fact that all of the activity in Djamaa-El Fna, which is pronounced like “c-e-n-t-r-a-l  s-q-u-a-r-e”, is the number one tourist rip-off on the planet.  Should you really, really want your picture taken with a monkey or a camel or a cobra, well, it is going to cost you.  If you even get within 10 feet from these hucksters, they are going to try to take your money.

While we were strategically skirting around the edges, being careful not to make eye contact with any shysters, suddenly Mr. Big finds himself with a snake just a-danglin’ around his neck.  Yes.  He had been roped in by one of the Snake Charmer’s handlers.  I was like, okay, here we go.  This is the way it works.  The main attraction sends out “feelers” into the crowd.  This advance guy negotiates a deal with the tourist.  The tourist pays 10 euros into the kitty and the tourist then gets to take a bunch of pictures of the main attraction, which, in this case was a snake charmer and also, not unimportantly, gets to have the snake removed from around his neck.

Luckily for me, all of these Moroccans speak French.  Well, I lit into him like I was his mother and he had just tracked dirt into the house.  He thought, just from looking at my husband’s clothes, that he had snared some naïve American tourists.  No, sir.  I have just been swindled by a Berber and I am now wise to your ways.  You need to get that stupid snake off of my husband’s neck before I make somebody bleed (which is the most horrible thing I know how to say in French.)  Needless to say, I got my pictures of the snake charmer and his cobra with no further ado.

This has been a long story, but a good one, yes?  I will have to begin writing Marrakesh Part Two.  I mean, I didn’t even get to the part where we were walking in front of the movie theater and spied the man carrying two live chickens upside down.  I also didn’t touch on the bizarre practice of the butchers who leave the penises on all of the animals.  Good stuff coming, my friends.

Chalet Shenanigans - Chapter 22

My Name is Bond.  Jane Bond.

This month has been ridiculous.   We took a little 5-day vacation to Morocco in North Africa, which I will tell you about in the next post, but, before I go into that craziness, I have to catch y’all up on what occurred in just the last two weeks.   Five days ago, my niece, who lives right outside of Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania, had a baby, which makes me a Great Aunt.  Somehow, that sounds older than GoGo, the charming name that my grandchildren call me.

A Great Aunt is someone who wears a shawl and walks with a cane and keeps a Kleenex up inside of her sleeve to take care of random bodily emissions.  There are no “cute” names like GoGo, or Mimi, or Nana for a Great Aunt.  It is what it is.  So, I am now Great Aunt Trailing Spouse, which is fine and I have already embraced this new status but poor Mr. Big is another matter, entirely.

Me:  Mr. Big!  She just had the baby!  You are now a Great Uncle!  Look, look, here is her picture on Facebook!

Mr. Big:  I’m a what?

Me:  Great Uncle, you silly man!  OMG, she is presh in her little Polartech cap!  She looks just like Small Son in his ski hat.

Mr. Big:  Is that really such a thing?  Great Uncle?  I think you are making that up.

Unfortunately for Mr. Big, no one in his family ever lives long enough to attain the status of Great Uncle.  He has really bad genes, ergo, he had never even heard of the term.  How sad is that?  In my family, we have awesome genes, (plus, we procreate early and often), and we have gazillions of family photos of 5 generations and, occasionally, six.  Generations.  It’s true.  Nothing kills us.  Nothing.  My relatives live, routinely, into their hundreds.  If you die before you are 100 in my family, you are letting down the side.  We say things like “oh, such a pity.  Cut short in her prime at 91.  So sad.”

So, I became a Great Aunt to a little princess named Harper and my little sister became a Grandmother, which just cracks me up.  You just wait, all you young people reading this.  It is a very big deal—these are real milestones, not unlike turning 21 or getting arrested for the first time or buying your first house or whatever.  You think your rites of passage are all behind you?  Think again.  Someday you will achieve “Great” status and it is a mind-blowing thing.  And, if you are very lucky and you are borne of good genes, you will achieve “Great, Great” status and then you are really cooking with gas.

In the same week that I became a Great Aunt, I went to a Lady Gaga concert.  I am nothing if not diverse.  I am trying to be That Immensely Cool Old Gal so people have something nice to say at my funeral.   As in “well, she was a royal bitch but she was a COOL royal bitch. 

Did you know she wore a mini-skirt and went to see Gaga in her 50’s?”

















Please try to picture my husband at a Gaga venue.  Oh, wait, first try to picture a bunch of Swiss people at a Gaga venue.  Yawn.  Gaga kept yelling at the audience to “get off your &^%$ing asses!  This is not a $#@%ing funeral!”  The Swiss don’t dance much and the only singing they do in public is to the accompaniment of alpenhorns and cow bells, so it was just hysterical watching them force themselves into having a good time.

 Furthermore, and may God strike me dead if I’m lyin’, but the ticket-takers hand out earplugs to everyone as they enter the concert.  It’s true.  I saved mine.  Concerts are too loud for delicate Swiss ears, hence ear plugs.  I wonder if Gaga knows they did that?

Mr. Big, unlike the Swiss, was having ENTIRELY too much fun.  He was singing completely-made-up lyrics and dancing in his spastic white man fashion.  It was appalling, really.  At one point, I had to make him stop.  Just.  Stop.  Please.  It was right after Gaga had climbed out of a 50-foot inflatable zippered vagina.  He got a little carried away.  As one tends to do in that situation.  Entirely understandable.

Anyway, if you get a chance to go to one of her concerts, I highly recommend it.  It is waaaay more than just singing.  It is like rock opera or musical theater on crack.  The stage sets, the props, the costumes, the dancers—the whole spectacle is just over the top in every aspect.  Especially the lighting.  (Hi, Mac!)  Yes, the entire reason we attended the grand event was because our friend is Gaga’s lighting guy. 

So, it was just our good luck that he alighted in Zurich and we were able to spend some time with him.  I took him out to lunch the next day and fed him some weinerschnitzel.  Somehow, I do not think that was a fair exchange.  I’m sure I enjoyed the concert much more than he enjoyed his breaded pork cutlet, but I try to do what I can with what is available to me at the time.  C’est la vie.

What else?  Well, I went back to French school after the summer break.  They put me in an advanced class with a bunch of people who already speak French.  I think I’m going to quit.  Seriously.  After the first session, I went to my teacher and told her that she was sorely mistaken if she thought I belonged in that class.  She was very reassuring and tried to tell me that that was, indeed, where I belonged.

Ooh, I promise you, Teach.  I do not belong here.  These people can speak for 15 minutes in French, non-stop.  These people are not trying to translate every word from another language before they say it.  They are just, uh, talking.  I cannot do that.  I do not know what I have done to mislead you, Teach, but trust me.   You need to GET ME THE HELL OUT OF HERE.  These people are scary good!

Plus, I think one is a spy.  Yes.  Monday, when I arrived in class, there was a new girl.  Her French was much better than mine and, truthfully, I wasn’t paying her a lot of attention.  In French class, my brain is 100% occupied with trying to understand what my teacher is saying and then trying not to make an ass of myself when I reply.  I barely register the other people in the class.  Yesterday, however, one of our assignments was to read a 2-page essay on the French school system and then speak for 10 minutes or so to the other students about the school system in our own home country.  Lawd, give me some toothpicks for my eyelids, right?

So, I was going last and the new girl was going to second to last.  I was COMPLETELY not paying attention to what anybody else was saying because I was silently practicing what I was going to say when my turn came around.  New girl starts talking and about half way through her dissertation, I hear the word “Iran” which catapults me right out of my fugue state.  Wait, what?  You are from Iran, new girl?  Then, of course, I was kicking myself for not paying better attention.  Was she new here in Switzerland?  Why was she here?  Good God, she could be anything!  A journalist, the ambassador’s daughter, a spy, a housewife, a spy posing as a housewife, anything.  Anything at all.

My mind was awhirl.  Am I giving away state secrets if I talk about the dysfunctionality of America’s school system?  Keep in mind that I am the only American in the room.  In fact, I am the only person in the room with English as a mother tongue.  I quickly change the course of my oral dissertation and tell the class, in French, bien sur, that the only problem with the American school system is in trying to assure that ALL students, regardless of their background, ability or gender, are afforded an equal opportunity to pursue the highest degree of education that they want to achieve.  In fact, that the American school system is second to none.

What else was I going to say with a potential spy in the room, eh?  That the poor kids in Mississippi test out to about the same level as the common garden slug?  Am I going to say that with a spy in the room?  No, I don’t think so.  Luckily for you, America, you have been saved by me to carry on another day and no one will be infiltrating Mississippi on my watch.  I am a little worried about tomorrow, though.  Suppose the topic in class is Airport Security, or God forbid, our opinions on nuclear energy.  I could really use some guidance here, so if someone from the State Department could just give me a buzz, that would be great.  And maybe send me one of those cool, little recorders disguised as a pair of reading glasses, too.  Thanks.